Delete, delete, delete…

“If we didn’t get a picture, it didn’t happen”.

I grew up with a Mom that loved capturing the moment. And it didn’t matter if the moment was a graduation or the cat sitting on top of the refrigerator. Back when it was a bit of a hassle, we took lots and lots of pictures. We took pictures with an actual camera, took the film to the store to be developed, waited a few days and returned to discover that half of the pictures were blurry or close ups with people who had their eyes closed. But somehow, we managed. My Mom’s walls are covered with framed memories and her shelves are filled with albums that help us the recall the furniture we had in the 70’s, our favorite dress that we wore on the first day of kindergarten, and the sleeping bags we got for Christmas. I will never be one to regret taking pictures. My bestie once described my home like “walking through a scrapbook” because of all the pictures displayed. The only drawback of taking pictures at a whim with my iPhone that is always available is that those pictures add up quickly. And, at least for me, they are difficult to get rid of – which is why I had to create a system of sorts to control the amount of pictures on my phone. Another issue that increases my incredibly large amount of pictures is that I am a preschool teacher and take many pictures of my little students that I share with their parents. Inevitably, I don’t delete them, and in a month, I easily have hundreds of pictures from school alone. And yes, I do print my photos, too – but it’s so fun when I’m referring to something and I can pull my phone out and show a picture that gives more detail (look how cute my sleeping dog is, etc… 🙂 ).

This summer, I noticed that I had 30, 728 pictures on my phone. This does not include my videos, and I don’t wish to discuss that at this time, thank you. The main reason I even discovered this photo count is that my phone gently let me know that their was an update, but I didn’t have enough storage for it to load successfully. Well, crap – I was pretty sure that I knew the reason – and once I checked, yep – my photos were a big part of the problem. I knew the way my schedule looked, how my brain worked, and how emotionally attached I was to some of these pictures. That being said, a plan was necessary in order for me to hit my goal of 20, 000 pictures on my camera roll by the time I started back to school – September 2nd, 2025. I would need to be diligent, a bit ruthless and completely committed to eliminating pictures and screenshots. At this point, I am at 22, 222 picures – that means that I have successfully deleted 8, 506 pictures (so far)! If I can do it, anyone can, so I wanted to share my system in case it might be helpful to others that have a similar goal.

I started a page in my notes app. on my phone and typed in how many pictures were on my camera roll and the date. As I found time during the day, I would sit down and set a 30 minute timer. During that time period I would view each picture and determine if I was keeping it or deleting it. Some of the decisions were easy – memes, recipes, screenshots and duplicate photos were deleted without a second thought. The time and effort came in when I had to select the “best” picture out of a series – you know, you hand someone your phone and ask for a picture and they take 8. Unless I had previously marked my favorite – I was required to painstakingly look at each person in the shot to make sure the BEST picture was saved. I also found myself wanting to share some of these photos with others. My camera roll includes pictures from the year 2013 so that is a LOT of memories to pour over – but it can be done! At the end of each day, I would add the picture total and date to my notes page, this helped me to keep track of how close to my goal I was at any given time. Yes, it is tedious, but it is also slightly addicting – I’ll delete 50 more pictures and then start dinner, 100 more pictures and then finish the laundry, etc… I am proud of myself for sticking with this – as it can become quite a chore. I actually allowed myself an 18 day break at one point because I started to dread it. Taking a break did the trick and when I restarted, I was motivated once again.

All of this to say, I’m so glad that I at least started this process. I didn’t think I could do it – which sounds so silly – but it really was a daunting task. Once I had a plan, it was completely do able, and I was able to see daily progress, which always helps. Do you have an obscene amount of pictures on your phone? And let’s be honest, an “obscene number” is subjective – some people would be absolutely horrified to have over 1,000 pictures on their phone. I am going to be much more diligent about deleting pictures every Sunday from now on, so I don’t find myself in this predicament again. Being aware and getting rid of unnecessary pictures or screenshots immediately will also help a great deal. It’s up to you – but if you have the desire – you can take control and do something about it.

Now, onto my emails – LOL.

What are your top 3?

How often do we critique ourselves, or is it just me? Questioning our choices, performances, or motivation is a pretty common phenomenon. We are, I’ve heard, our own worst critic. I try my best to be an encourager – to point out the good in others, to praise when things are done well, to give thanks when I am grateful. But I don’t typically do the same for myself – and you might not, either. After choosing intentional as my word of the year for 2023, I am becoming more aware of my own self talk, and to be honest, I’m kind of a meanie. I often dwell on mistakes or recall situations that could’ve been handled differently. I’m now focusing more on what has gone well, what I’m proud of, and what I’d like to see continue. As I grow in this direction, I saw a writing prompt that looked helpful “Name three personality traits that you are proud of”. Making myself look for positive attributes of my personality was just what I needed – and I assume you need it, too! I hope you will join me and at the very least make a list of personality traits that make you proud. We all need reminders of the great job we are doing as we push through this crazy thing called life!

Creativity

I’d say that being creative has always been a part of my personality and has served me well. As a child, I could play secretary for hours with a pretend phone and a spiral notebook that I had made into my appointment book. I established Kelly’s Deli, complete with an ever changing menu of what the refrigerator held at the time, and took the orders of my family members, serving them their food as they lounged in the living room. I later used these creative juices to write book reports, poems, and eventually three children’s books as an adult. We would enjoy themed dinners when the children were growing up and chocolate parties and heart hunts on Valentine’s Day. As a teacher, I love to create eye catching bulletin boards and art projects that include color, texture, and fun. Life is too short not to celebrate the average Tuesday, or redecorate a room for no other reason than you got a new pillow on sale. Adding joy to the ordinary has helped me to create many memories , and for that I am grateful.

Organized

I have always loved all things that have to do with organization. Gel pens, journals, colored paper clips and calendars make me giddy. Being able to plan, schedule, and make the best use of my time gives me a high like no other. Of course, the opposite is true as well. Life has a crazy way of taking your calendar and lighting it on fire – take the PANDEMIC, for instance. Being a mom of four and a preschool teacher has also taught me the importance of staying on task. Knowing that a tidy space and well thought out day would only benefit my students and family encouraged me even more to hone in on my organizational skills. Understandably, it’s impossible to keep a spotless home or classroom, and it’s also not healthy to dictate an extremely rigid schedule. But having a routine is crucial, and we all thrive when we know what to expect. I am proud of all that I have managed to achieve so far in my life using these skills.

Compassionate

If I had to choose one trait that I am most proud of – it would be that I’m compassionate. It doesn’t take skill or intelligence- but it does take time, and the ability to notice the needs of others. I was brought up to be generous with my time and abilities. We were always encouraged to have open eyes to areas in the house, school, or community that would benefit from our help. Many people don’t offer assistance because they think they couldn’t do “enough”. I’m here to confirm that it’s the little things that mean the most, and are remembered the longest. A text to check in on a friend, a meal dropped off to a family with a sick child, flowers given secretly to someone that needs a smile. I love doing these things for others because I know how much I appreciate similar acts of love (and really, it’s not difficult at all!). No matter what is happening in my own life, I know that I always feel better when I offer my time or services to others.

Okay – now it’s YOUR turn! What are your top 3? Please share – I’ll be waiting to hear from you 🙂

HAPPY FEBRUARY ❤️

Something in the air…

organizingThe month of January typically brings with it a fresh motivation to get my act together. Now mind you, I try super hard throughout the year to keep my ducks in a row (or at least in a cute chevron pattern) so this shouldn’t come as a complete surprise to those that know me.  I am inspired by pinterest, home decor shops, and the adorable ads on TV that suggest I try the “out with the old, and in with the new” method of starting my New Year. I vow to pull it all together – and keep it that way.

I feel the “urge to purge” my clutter, extra clothes and pantry chaos about twice a year- usually in January and June. The kids finishing school and being home for 3 months motivates me to have the house in order, since I won’t have much time for cleaning while they are all here 24/7. It’s easy enough to understand my desire to tidy up after the six occupants in this house are spoiled rotten at Christmas and our new belongings all need a “place” to call their own. It becomes a necessity to dig out the house and carve out a landing space for all of our new this and thats. Clothes are donated and food is rearranged in order to be able to close the pantry door safely. This year, I was even inclined to give away 14 bottles of red wine that we had accumulated from house guests and such through the years (we just aren’t red wine drinkers). While cleaning out the pantry, I took a picture of the bottles and posted on Facebook that I wanted to give them away to a good home. I quickly became the most popular girl around and also got a chance to see a few friends as they dropped by to pick up their free bottles. Such fun! I now had a bunch of freed up space in my pantry and my friends could bring in the New Year with a glass in the air – CHEERS!

I also try my best to update my calendar and clean out my desk at the start of each year. I make appointments that I have been putting off and send notes and thank yous on cute stationery that makes me happy. I restock my pens, notepads, stamps and envelopes and little things that end up missing like rolls of tape and push pins for the bulletin board. I also throw away all of the old notices, invitations and event reminders that have taken over our family control center. A cleaned off bulletin board makes me a bit less frantic when I walk past it in the morning on my way to pour a cup of coffee. Straightening piles – and better yet, eliminating them all together – allows me to focus more on the important stuff in life.

In the end, your environment is just that – YOURS. If you thrive in a neat knick paradise, my hope for you is that you can achieve your organized dream – and keep it that way.  And if you like your piles, I hope a neat freak doesn’t mess with them!  Enjoy the rest of January 🙂